thanks for your replies, they r making me think
i am normally a confident secure person but shit like this makes me un balanced and i hate it hate it hate it
about 2 weeks ago i noticed slight changed in his behaviour, less calling, less face time etc,,, its ok shit happens we get busy. However, being creatures of habit, i always pay attention to the details.
he is very busy so i can understand that part. i needed to confirm and did the unthinkable, went through his phone. wouldnt ya know theres a chikita available to chitchat with him? He was temporarily in her work enviroment and they met and he would inviite her to spend her coffee breaks with him. he even "looked forward to seeing her" i dont know if they met outside of work, datewise.
not having had a gf in the last 5 yrs(lots of dating but no gf), and having told me that the retionship between us has surprised him, im not sure what i am dealing with here:
a player?
a reforming player?
a guy freaking out about getting serious? after 35, this should b a no-brainer, but what do i know?
a guy adjusting to a different lifestyle and fighting all the way?
a guy not know when enough is enough?
do i talk to him and what do i say?
do i walk?
do i wait?
i wish i could turn off my feelings and just fuck em
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